Nice Letters We Get
Maria (In response to an email reading)
Perfect! That is exactly what I am going to do. Thank you so much. You are always so helpful and gracious - an right on! I did another question earlier this year about how the eclipse would impact me and I was so much better prepared for all of this. I am feeling an overwhelming feeling of gratitude about this entire event - because this is what I wanted AND I got severance! It is amazing what you can manifest when you stay focused. Take care and please know you are appreciated.
Kim
Bonjour Maria,
Thank you so very much for the study you made on the question I asked. Oh, la,la...Randy and I will have to hang on in there!!! It is not going to be easy and I am preparing myself for that. Everything happens for a reason! I read your last newsletter and thank you again Maria for writing such empowering articles and for helping everyone of us to feel more at peace in this shift of consciousness.
In loving gratitude,
Claudette
Hi Maria,
Just wanted to tell you how right on your Law Of Abundance dates are.
Every time I use them something comes to me out of the blue, namely, money.
We were supporting our daughter and 3 grandchildren which was a strain on our budget. She needed a car payment to be made so I used monies that were supposed be used to pay our bills in order to pay all of hers to the tune of $638.00 and decided that I would pay our bills later.
I received a $5.00 (yes I said $5.00) free slot play credit from one of the casinos here. I wasn't going to go but since it was free I said why not?
I punched in my PIN pressed the button one time, got a bonus and guess what I won?
$600!!!!!
I was flabbergasted. And yes, it was on one of the Law of Abundance dates you gave me.
Thank you so much for providing them.
Elaine
Dear Maria - I am writing to let you know how much I enjoy your yearly moon calendar. It has helped me plan my dates and events and made a difference in the success and outcomes. I also use the good money days to play at the casino too! LOL. I am thankful you offer these every year. Thanks also for the free book offer. That is nice of you to give something extra. I will be putting my order in for three calendars this weekend. Sheryl, Mount Clemens.
Dear Maria and Joe
Wanted to thank you both for the excellent reading you gave me earlier this month on my troubled relationship. I completely understand what's going on and why and can now move forward with the choices I need to make for my own happiness. I will continue to search for my true twin flame and take heart the advice you gave me. In gratitude, Amy
(Editor's note: if you would like a Twin Flame/Soul Mate Reading on a relationship or future karmic connection visit MariaShaw.com for details on this special reading. Joe Lawson is offering the reading at the psychic fairs this weekend but also on the phone for clients around the country) |
Keeping the "Light Alive" in your Relationship
By Maria Shaw
Just us each of us vibrates to a unique frequency and energy so does the relationship we are in. Imagine this; your relationship has an identity all its own. You and your partner's individual identities operate at one frequency. But when you join forces and become "one", the union has a frequency all its own. It is created by the love you share, the intimate moments, the sexual experiences, the laughter, the tears, the joy and yes, even the pain. Sometime the frequency shifts and can be very high and then decrease in strength and energy when quarrels and "distancing" occurs. This is why I counsel people on how to avoid distancing or stop it when it starts to happen.To keep a relationship healthy and moving forward, the energy level of the frequency needs to remain high. The vibration needs to be kept strong. Every now and then, every couple experience some distancing. This happens when one partner creates an energy that would be considered negative or takes action that creates a negative reaction from their partner. Sometimes it is unspoken, sometime subtle and often, very obvious. For example; let's say you and your partner fight about something and you give him the silent treatment. Distancing occurs. Then it takes some time to get close again and trust that you can trust emotionally trust the partner again. A wall goes up and then goes down. If distancing continuously happens, then the walls go up and then down again and again until eventually the walls stay up to avoid the hurt, pain and confusion associated with the distancing. Once the walls are stuck in the "up" position, partners begin to emotionally turn off and everything starts to fall apart in the relationship. Again this can be subtle or very obvious. Each partner than cannot trust that they will not get emotionally hurt again so the walls stay up. You will notice this has happened when you start blaming each other and claiming who's at fault rather than what's at fault. Most of the time, it is not your partner or you that is at fault but the "situation" is to blame. If you can understand and see this, you can sometimes stop distancing from happening. This takes a certain amount of emotional maturity. However, most couple will have ups and downs in their relationship but its how many times they record in their brains the pains, hurts and , etc and how frequent the distancing occurs whether the relationship will break off or continue to grow and thrive. Obviously the less frequent the episodes, the more time a relationship has to strengthen and grow. Every emotion has an energy including fear, jealousy, sexual attraction and love operates on a vibrational frequency. The key to a great relationship is keeping the frequency high. After each argument, the frequency is lowered and the couple must work hard at re establishing the frequency the relationship was operating at before the problems. You don;t want to get the distancing to this point because overtime it is harder and harder to get back to a higher frequency. So the key to success is to stop e distancing at the moment you feel it coming on.When the relationship operates on a lower frequency, more negativity can attach itself to the relationship's energy because like draws like. Fir ex maple, if someone is trying to break you and your partner up, if the relationship is operating a low level and weaker, then it is more likely another negative energy can have an influence. Then there's a domino effect and one problem after another arises for the couple. When you feel a distancing occur, it is up to both of you to stop and say "Wait, we are distancing ourselves and then immediately do something to bring your frequency back up like make love, kiss, change activities, laugh, compliment one another, etc. Think back to the beginning of your relationship. The first few months or even the first year or so everything seem to fall into place. You felt like you could conquer the world together. Your love vibe was strong and the relationship was operating at a high frequency. Honeymoon periods do not end. People end them because of allowing the energy to change in their relationship. Put insecurities, fear, jealousy and anger to work in your relationship, which by the way all operate at a low frequency, and you will pull the energy straight down.Do things that support the relationship. Be proactive and do not allow negative people, situations, talk, thoughts and the like to mess with your strong vibration. Whether you are just beginning a new relationship and have not built up any baggage yet or you are in a relationship that has experiences its share of distancing, it is not too late to raise the frequency. It may take more patience and work to do so if you;ve been in a long term relationship that had had many frequent ups and downs but it can be accomplished with a concentrated and thoughtful effort. And the beautiful thing about my theory is that you can start this exact moment to change the energy in any relationship; whether it be family, friends, co workers, lovers, etc. Right now take a moment and as you read this, visualize a pink light around your partner, call them, or tell them you love them, embrace them, feel love swell up inside of you and send it to them either physically or mentally or spiritually. See and feel what happens. Love operates on one of the highest frequencies and lower frequencies cannot match it or stay in its vibration for long. Negative energies and feelings cannot thrive or grow and are uncomfortable in a loving environment. Like attracts like. Your love can help raise someone else's frequency to a higher level and that's what relationships are all about...and kinda like the old song "Your Love keeps lifting me higher and higher......" |
